A Nigerian man took to Twitter to share his though on why men don’t like accepting gifts from the women they are dating.
According to @MrOdanz, women always haunt men with material things they gave out in a romantic relationship when things go south.
He further said that men seldom cry out for help or harrass their ex-girlfriends when they get dumped in a relationship they spent a lot in.
He tweeted;
“Dozens of Igbo men have sponsored the life and education of women they want to marry till graduation. Most of them get dumped at the end of their sacrifice.They drink it down with beer, wail to their friends and move on You don’t see them crying for help and harassing their Ex
“Some men even rented houses for their Exes, fund their lives and the lives of all their family members. Sometimes in expectation for nothing. When things don’t work out, they pack up and leave in dignity. No drama, no emotional blackmail, no victimhood Olympics
“But it is the SUPERIOR GENDER that will go beserk if they spend 10 Naira on you and it later doesn’t end up in marriage. They’d tell the story to the whole world, they’d haunt you, they will curse, they will harass. If there is a way to destroy you, they’d jump at it.
“Right there is a reason why men don’t exactly like taking gifts from women. They’d prefer to be the ones giving. Because things can go south and they’d go about talking about how “I MADE HIM, I FED HIM, I CLOTHED HIM, I GAVE HIM AIR.”
“If you know you are giving your lover any gifts or money in expectation for something, please put it into a written agreement so we know you are mad. Coming back to haunt the person after things go South is outrightly wrong and evil. Women indeed need to do better with that”
A male legal practitioner who contributed to the tweet revealed how he refused to ‘disgrace patriarchy’ when a man who wanted to sue an Ex-girlfriend came to him. The lawyer wrote:
Another contributor wrote:
